PREGNANCY

evolution of you

8 weeks

12 weeks
(being a wiggle worm)

20 weeks

30 weeks

from your mom

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from your mom β˜…

I haven’t been through the last 4-6 weeks yet, but overall your pregnancy has not been too bad, and I’ve really enjoyed having you, my little buddy, with me all the time. I’m never alone!

    • Pasta with red sauce

    • Hot subs

    • Any ground meat

    • Chunky Soup

    • Chicken Pot Pie

    • Eggs cooked at home

    • Pretty much any hot, cooked meal

    • Jimmy John’s veggie subs

    • Zaxby’s fried cobb salad

    • CEREAL

    • Costco fruit/veggie pouches

    • UNCRUSTABLES

    • Lots and lots and lots of McDonald’s: happy meals and egg mcmuffin meals

    • Baby carrots

    • Milk

    • Fruit (which I usually do not care for)

It was pretty hard for me to eat in the first trimester and I often felt nauseous and tired, but I never threw up!

Despite what people said would happen, I started showing EARLY and I have been rather on the large side your entire pregnancy. People OFTEN ask if I’m sure there’s only one in here (sigh).

Second Trimester meant quite a lot of pelvic pain (the type I expected later in the 3rd trimester) and it has not gone away yet! Haha

The third trimester, so far, has brought an inability to breathe, move, or change the laundry over without feeling like I ran a mile. My fingers and ankles are finally swollen (Week 33) and I waddle everywhere. The pelvic pain is CRAZY thanks to the relaxin in my body getting me ready for birth. You are almost here though, so it’s worth it!! Oh and you also hiccup a LOT and I sleep about 5 hours a night now.

At 37+6, you’ve been head down for a few weeks but still very wiggly. The doctor said your spine is on my right side. Several times a day, on the upper right side of my belly, I get what I suspect is a foot poking through.

At 38+5, my feet are comically swollen and I’m 1cm dilated and 30% effaced! So you’ll be here soon (please).

from your dad

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from your dad π“…“

I don’t have much to contribute in your development physically, so I have sought out more of the psychological and spiritual during these last months. Though I had my fair share of kicking and screaming just as you one day will, I came to grips with the task your life presents me. I am responsible for you, and I get the privilege to watch you grow. I get to put my own nurturing stamp upon your life. It has been a heavy weight but an incredible honor that God would entrust you to Alyssa and me. So if I stopped there, I knew we were enough to be your parents.

I also have been writing to you, in hopes that you one day you may see the world as I did, maybe feel the emotions that I felt, worrying over your mother or finances or how I could possibly raise you. I just know that all of these anxieties will be shed the moment I see you, and I’ll wonder why I ever struggled. When I first see your face, it will be like lifting a shroud from my own.